董卿谈父亲落泪,童年阴影影响一生,常常自卑只好用命去博

时间:2019-07-16 来源:www.thecambridgewritingschool.com

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董青谈到了父亲的眼泪。 “童年阴影”影响了他的生活。他经常缺乏自尊心,不得不用自己的生命去博。

事实上,原始家庭对孩子的心理依赖性是持久的,不容易褪色,这对女孩尤为明显。女孩对性敏感。如果男孩和女孩同时受到父亲的指责,结果将对女孩产生更深的影响。即使经过这么多年,董青在谈到父亲和他的家庭时,也明白父亲的苦涩,但却非常体贴。

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她的父亲对她非常克制,大多数人都难以想象父亲会要求这样一个严厉的女人如此严格。女孩自然爱美,但董青的父亲并不这么认为。当她还是个孩子的时候,她不会让她在镜子里打扮,她母亲也不会给她买各种漂亮的裙子和衣服,甚至也不允许她参加各种娱乐比赛。根据董青本人的说法,在他高中的暑假和寒假中,父亲会让她去兼职工作。可以做到的最好的事情是酒店清洁工。我从早到晚都赚了一块,我会阻止它。每个月赚几十块。

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事实上,董青在每个人面前的形象都是知性的和有尊严的。她怎么认为她在酒店做的工作水平最低,同时她的同龄人喜欢夏天和冬天。然而,如此严厉的迫害董青也是父亲的艰辛。虽然董青的父亲是上海人,但他的家庭一直很穷,而且他也是一个农村出身的人。他自己一步一步爬上去。他对自己和女儿董青有很高的要求。要求同样很高。

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Fortunately, Dong Qing is smart and hard to work early, day after day to get up early, even at night, he is also picking up lights, paying all the available time to review his homework, and the college entrance examination is also very good. He successfully went to Fudan journalism to become a radio host. Too much urgency to force their children will bring more psychological pain to her. What we see is a decathlon moderator, but in fact Dong Qing’s character is very strong. Everything must pursue 100% perfection, and he is not confident in himself. He always worry about work mistakes. But what is 100% perfect in the world?

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Dong Qing talked about his father's tears. The "childhood shadow" affects his life. He often has a low self-esteem and has to use his life to go to Bo. In fact, when girls grow up, they have two ideas: First, I want to find a man who loves me like my father. Second, I must not look for a man like my dad. These two ideas are also derived from the original environment. This concept is a lifetime, and the idea is hard to kill. So what do you like for your parents' education?

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